The owner of an investment business, located in one of the towers, was elsewhere at a meeting during the attack, but ALL the employees at work that day were killed in the attack on the towers - well over 600, including his brother and closest friends. His disbelief and shock were matched only by his incomprehensible grief. Through uncontrolled sobs, he talked about how much these employees / friends meant to him and his commitment to do all he could to help the victims families.

     In the immediate aftermath of 911, everything changed in our country. Strangers spoke to each other as friends. Social barriers, pretenses and superficial attitudes were gone. Regardless of where you went, there seemed to be and immediate bond with those around you - instant unity through this tragedy as it affected every American. It felt like we were all family.

     We were all drawn together as we focused on the common enemy and the clarity of what really mattered in life. Our country and communities grew stronger as the days passed - out of the devastating rubble came determined resolve.

  Whether we're remembering 9-11-01, (or more personal tragedies) in honoring the memories of those we lost and the heroes who emerged, we have opportunity to also appreciate those in our lives who impact us every day, yet we tend to take for granted.

   Imagine how different things would be in our personal relationships, businesses, communities and country if we chose to daily offer the same level of love and respect we experienced after September 11, 2001. We can more fully honor those we've lost by honoring each other, every day - not just in times of crisis.